Sunday, December 11, 2011
worse than a widow
that is what she said... "i am worse than a widow."
she didn't say it in a way that wanted attention, or hoped for any response. she was just saying how she felt.
i have blogged about enrique before. one of our rhinos, he is a precious kid with an unimaginably difficult life. his dad is an abusive alcoholic and his mom works ridiculous hours to take care of the family.
his mom has never asked us for anything. in fact, the only times she has ever walked up to the academy is when we host parent meetings. hesitant and embarrassed, she knocked at the door tonight.
she apologized for the "bother." was clearly nervous. i tried my best to put her at ease. she began to share...
they are completely broke, in debt, and desperate. they have no food. they owe money to the tienda, who has been allowing them to buy food on an "tab" to be paid later. on her last trip to the tienda, they told her they couldn't allow it to continue.
enrique wants to continue studying next year, but there is no way they can afford it. (the only costs are the uniform and school supplies).
that's when she said it. "my husband... all he does is drink. he takes the money i earn for the family, and uses it to get drunk every single day. what am i supposed to do? i work long hours to take care of my children, but he steals the money i earn. he is hurting us. i believe that i am worse off than a widow."
my eyes filled with tears. i asked her what all she owed, and told her we would share her need and do all we can.
enrique will be here tomorrow, like always, for class and practice. he will have his typical sweet smile on his face. this week, his team is walking through the village, giving out food and cookies to their neighbors. knowing enrique, he will do this with joy in his heart, despite the overwhelming needs in his own home.
if anyone feels led to help enrique's mom, please send me an email at email@example.com or you can donate through our website here. here are their current needs:
- $270 to the local tienda for their last 3 months for food.
- $75 to cover all costs for the 2012 school year
- any additional donations will be used to buy food for their family