Thursday, March 22, 2012
please pray with us for jose
when he first arrived here, i would have never thought he'd make it a week. a rough kid, he raises himself on the streets. i've known him for almost 4 years now. he had always given me trouble in the past. i just knew that the rules, discipline, structure of the boys academy would be too much. it would be too hard for him and he'd quit for sure.
the first few months when something would come up stolen or broken, i always figured it would be him. it never was, not once. while the first few weeks were definitely tough, he soon turned a corner and began to flourish. eventually he became a leader. loyal, punctual, obedient, and loving. it was an amazing conversion.
we just love jose.
today we experienced one of our more heartbreaking moments here at the boys academy (and we've had lots of them). jose hasn't showed up for almost an entire week. at the end of the day, we went and tracked him down and brought him back to the academy to talk.
it wasnt long before jose - a tough kid who i have never seen cry before - was sobbing. the entire conversation, about 45 minutes to an hour, he was crying hard, fighting to even talk over the tears.
he shared that his brother is forcing him to work full days out in the field. "he says i am a man now and its time for me to help him pay off his loan", he said as he sucked back tears and tried to even breathe.
jose is 14. he thought he was 12 until we took him a couple months ago to track down his birth certificate. he is just a boy.
please pray with us as we plan to go see his brother this sunday. these are the situations that present all kinds of challenges. the locals can get the idea that we're trying to tell them what to do, trying to control them - how they parent, or what's best for their families.
that is not the case at all. we have always been sensitive to this and respectful for decisions that the families make.
but we want to give these boys a voice, and we will fight for injustices that are unreasonable. jose is a kid, he is not a grown man. he is working full days under the sun in a field. when we asked him what he is earning he said they haven't told him yet. he is being abused, taken advantage of to say the least.
sunday we will go speak with his brother and his mom (who doesn't have a lot to do with him) in an effort to get jose back. praying the holy spirit will fall on us as we speak. that he will soften hearts, and help us get this kid back where he belongs - learning, growing, leading, and thriving.