praying for dependence

In the last 60 days I have sold practically everything I own. House, cars, furniture, tv's, dishes, linens, and toys. As we prepare to move to Guatemala, one simple blessing I was not anticipating was my "dependence relationship" with God to go through the roof. While my amount of gray hair has probably doubled in the last 2 months, so has my need for Jesus.

A few weeks ago at deepStream we studied Proverbs 30:8-9. This has got to be the most profound prayer I have ever heard. Sadly, I have read this passage many times before only to pass through one ear and out the other. At first glance, it doesn't seem so crazy.

But if you meditate on this prayer, or even better, if you're willing to pray it for yourself from the heart, there's a good chance it will conflict with much you've been taught. It opposes many of the very things that motivate us, and it cuts to the heart of western culture.

Keep falsehood and lies far from me;
give me neither poverty nor riches,
but give me only my daily bread.
Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you

and say, 'Who is the LORD ?'

Or I may become poor and steal,

and so dishonor the name of my God.

Have you ever prayed anything so counter-cultural? Most of us have prayed "give us this day, our daily bread..." but consider the additional meaning here. As I read it, I hear the author saying: God, please do not make me wealthy. Don't give me too much money. I don't want to be set for life! I don't want financial security... I might forget about you or begin living as if I don't need you!

The piercing truth of this passage is that a state of dependence on God is the most healthy way to live. The author of this proverb knows that if he is dependent on God, he won't forget about God, and his faith will remain strong.  If he has too much success, too much money, a false sense of security, his dependence on God declines in direct proportion. With great financial security, God may still be something he "believes in", but no longer something he desperately needs.

In balancing out his prayer, the writer also asks not to be poor, for poverty brings temptations of its own. This is certainly the side of the prayer that most of us are comfortable with - its the prayer to not be wealthy that messes with us! We should all be challenged to measure our willingness to pray this prayer. Perhaps by considering our response, we can get a fair indicator of our true priorities.

Do I "need" you God? Do I actually "depend" on you to get by? If I did, would I be closer to you? Because I'll do anything to be closer to you. God, please do whatever you need to do to help me depend on you. Without you - without real faith and dependence on you - I am empty.